There’s a right way and a wrong way to start dating and begin a relationship.Here are my top 9 must-know rules for doing it the RIGHT way.These rules will make your life better and happier — and make dating a lot less crazy!In other words, be really single — not just almost single but completely single.It’s more common to see “separated” in online dating these days, but never in my life would I date someone who was just separated.Tell me it’s done and over and you identify as single and ready. Make a decision to get out, or get in there and work on making it better.If you’re single and looking, don’t go and get your heart attached to someone who isn’t sure if she’s done, who’s just checking out the single scene to decide if she’s done for sure, or who can’t hurt her current girlfriend just yet but promises she’ll break up with her next week. Wait to find someone who is really single, or if it’s you, be really single. It’s easy to rush — rush into dating, rush into sex, rush into commitment.Rushing never helped anyone when it comes to lesbian dating.
The worst feeling is to meet someone, have her look you up and down, and realize the date is over before it’s even begun. Secondly, go through your closet and put together a couple of great outfits.
One casual and one dressy in whatever your style is.